This week, World published my latest column. I love all of my assignments, but this one was especially fun, about two of my loves: sports and being a dad:
Last week the world watched a grown man cry. Not just any grown man, but a big tough offensive lineman Jason Kelce. The 13-year NFL veteran, six-time All-Pro, and Super Bowl champion announced his retirement from the Philadelphia Eagles. The bearded brother of the more well-known Travis Kelce, Jason struggled through a tear-filled but heart-felt statement.
Drafted in the 6th round of the 2011 NFL draft, Kelce became the anchor of a great offensive line and arguably one of the best centers in NFL history. His work ethic and gregarious personality won over the hearts of Philadelphia, a tough city that demands a lot from their athletes.
The press conference was about more than football, a game of passion and grit that has dominated Kelce’s entire life. It was a window into the joyful goods that animate a man’s life. This big man, who made millions of dollars pushing other big men around, broke down in tears describing the rich male friendships he developed as a teammate. He couldn’t contain himself when speaking about his brother, Travis. Both brothers are unafraid to show their affection for each other in public. Travis was present in Philadelphia, shown wiping his own tears away.
But perhaps the most touching moments were when the All Pro center spoke of the time he met his wife and how his marriage to her forever changed his life, reshaped his focus, and set him on the path to fatherhood. “She has also given me three beautiful girls and a life that increasingly brings me more fulfillment off the field than it does on.”
His role model? His own dad, whom Kelce lauded:
I have a ... good one. My father believed in me more than anyone. He believed in my brother and whenever my own insecurities would arise or self doubt would come in, he would stifle them with the warm embrace of belief, unwavering love, and belief. … He was the man and continues to be the man and father I strive to be.
You can read the rest of it here.
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